My husband was a Minister in a very conservative type of church for about 60 years. He is now unable (and doesn't want to) go anymore. I actually wrote to, not just the Minister, but to the entire congregation (it's a small "community" type church) and explained exactly OH's condition, how it affects him, and how very important it is that he gets visitors - that he needs contact with people other than me, and that he needs church contact. At that time, we were still going occasionally and the next time we were there, a couple of people stood up and publically said how ashamed they were that I had had to write and ask people to visit! However, no-one actually did visit. That was probably early last year. The MInister came to visit him last Thursday morning when I was out (I am persona non grata!) - the last time he came before that was last November. Disappointed? Yes. Surprised? Sadly, no. However, I know people from other churches who do make an effort to visit - in fact one friend who is caring for an elderly parent with alzheimers disease often comes to visit OH when they have someone in to give them a break!