Hello all,
I'm new to this forum and the reason I'm here is because my father has recently been diagnosed with fronto-temporal dementia. He has been getting steadily more confused and detached from reality over the last couple of years and has sharply declined since March, which coincided with his financial situation becoming very difficult.
I am one of four grown-up children from my father's first marriage to our mother. We are all very close to our father and see and speak to him every week. However our father married again and has two young children, and his wife is very hostile to me and my siblings. Yesterday, after becoming very concerned that we hadn't heard from our dad for 10 days, and repeatedly trying to contact him either by ringing his mobile, the landline, or going round to the house, we found out that our dad was sectioned 7 or 8 days ago and is being held in a hospital. Our stepmother had not bothered to tell us and had been actively avoiding our efforts to contact him or her. After speaking to a doctor at the hospital we have discovered that as next of kin/nearest relative she has asked for them not to talk to us or tell us anything.
Does anyone have any experience of similar situations and know what our rights are and what we can do? We are desperate to see our dad but have been told we can't visit him without our stepmother's permission, which will clearly be very difficult to obtain.
Thanks in advance.
F
I'm new to this forum and the reason I'm here is because my father has recently been diagnosed with fronto-temporal dementia. He has been getting steadily more confused and detached from reality over the last couple of years and has sharply declined since March, which coincided with his financial situation becoming very difficult.
I am one of four grown-up children from my father's first marriage to our mother. We are all very close to our father and see and speak to him every week. However our father married again and has two young children, and his wife is very hostile to me and my siblings. Yesterday, after becoming very concerned that we hadn't heard from our dad for 10 days, and repeatedly trying to contact him either by ringing his mobile, the landline, or going round to the house, we found out that our dad was sectioned 7 or 8 days ago and is being held in a hospital. Our stepmother had not bothered to tell us and had been actively avoiding our efforts to contact him or her. After speaking to a doctor at the hospital we have discovered that as next of kin/nearest relative she has asked for them not to talk to us or tell us anything.
Does anyone have any experience of similar situations and know what our rights are and what we can do? We are desperate to see our dad but have been told we can't visit him without our stepmother's permission, which will clearly be very difficult to obtain.
Thanks in advance.
F