My Dad went into a care home last October as I could no longer cope with his mood swings and threatening behaviour towards myself and my Mum who is disabled and has stage 5 kidney disease.
He has deteriorated slowly over the last few months and his memory has seen a rapid decline in the last few weeks. Around the start of this fast decline in memory he began to say that he wanted to die. This progressed to almost constant requests for me to help him/bring him something so that he can die. This is obviously distressing and I wonder if anyone else has experienced this with a close relative.
I just don't know how to handle this, I have found that agreeing with him on most things reduces his agitation but I can't agree with him on this. Is this likely to go on much longer, it is an emotional nightmare
He has deteriorated slowly over the last few months and his memory has seen a rapid decline in the last few weeks. Around the start of this fast decline in memory he began to say that he wanted to die. This progressed to almost constant requests for me to help him/bring him something so that he can die. This is obviously distressing and I wonder if anyone else has experienced this with a close relative.
I just don't know how to handle this, I have found that agreeing with him on most things reduces his agitation but I can't agree with him on this. Is this likely to go on much longer, it is an emotional nightmare