Hello Izzy and Lyn,
I slept well again last night - 25mg of Alprazolam plays a role.
I could never have foreseen this because I actually think I am in better mental shape than I was since the crisis of Mum's plunge in Jan/Feb/Mar/April.
Also I cannot imagine what happened because I have NO MEMORY at all of events, but hubby and son are providing written accounts for later.
I am certainly very very tired. Also fragile as any stress, loud noise, pressure etc feels absolutely wrong. Astonishingly Mum is 'aware' though we hid the whole thing. She keeps exhorting me to rest, wants to help with food preparation etc - an eyeopener that she functions at emotional levels as well as any of us. She senses something wrong. She even told my brother on the phone that "someone has been very ill here" - me I assume. Food for thought in this for us carers - perceptions are there and accurate.
Today I am treading gently. Sun shine seems too much as does bright light. Walks bring me into a sweat..... so I am weak and frail. This is appropriate for me though, as I would just jump back into the fray otherwise.
I have also learned a lot about memory that I can share here (not now!!!), the layers of memory, as I think they will help us understand dementia better. It was my emotional memory that cut out..... everything was just a film, I had no sensations, so was it happening to me? Or was it real-time or just a memory? All sorts of interesting stuff to play with. (Later).
Now, here is to another gentle day. Need to focus on the carer list, but don't feel much like it.
Hope you all have a gentle day. LOve BE