Pete was pushed again yesterday and has a sore back and a bruise on his bottom. The staff on the mental health unit are lovely and caring and didn't try to hide it from me.A care worker saw him fall and another patient was standing next to him and they think he was pushed.Pete is so in people's faces and sometimes it must appear to be very threatening. Poor Pete. He's not unhappy there and this time he's not asking to come home or asking for me all the time (which he has done on previous occasions when he has been sectioned)
He does know me (I go in everyday). Of course he just knows me as a person who brings him chocolate and gives him a hand massage everyday-but at least it's something.I phoned the SW yesterday to ask how he was getting on with finding Pete a specialist care home.He admitted he hadn't done anything yet!!!!Pete, apparently was near the top of his list of things to do!!!
So today I was very tearful when I visited but the staff led me into a side room and comforted me.That guilt monster is firmly settled on my shoulders.I asked what would happen at the end of Pete's section in just over a week's time.They said he would gon to section 3 or another deprivation of liberties.
It doesn't need to be said that I'm heartbroken.
The afternoon improved somewhat as I met up with fellow TPer Sah.A decent sandwich and a couple of coffees later -and neither of us openly cried. Dignity prevailed.Went home and phoned MHU. Pete has been asleep most of the afternoon-but talking to himself.
My poor darling Pete. Life is so unfair for him.
Hope you have all had ok days.
Lyn T
He does know me (I go in everyday). Of course he just knows me as a person who brings him chocolate and gives him a hand massage everyday-but at least it's something.I phoned the SW yesterday to ask how he was getting on with finding Pete a specialist care home.He admitted he hadn't done anything yet!!!!Pete, apparently was near the top of his list of things to do!!!
So today I was very tearful when I visited but the staff led me into a side room and comforted me.That guilt monster is firmly settled on my shoulders.I asked what would happen at the end of Pete's section in just over a week's time.They said he would gon to section 3 or another deprivation of liberties.
It doesn't need to be said that I'm heartbroken.
The afternoon improved somewhat as I met up with fellow TPer Sah.A decent sandwich and a couple of coffees later -and neither of us openly cried. Dignity prevailed.Went home and phoned MHU. Pete has been asleep most of the afternoon-but talking to himself.
My poor darling Pete. Life is so unfair for him.
Hope you have all had ok days.
Lyn T