This is my first post fir a while,life overtaken me in many ways.My younger(much)sister was diagnosed with secondery breast cancer in March,brain surgery,radiotherapy,much trauma for her and her family,hopefully over the worst for now but long term future very uncertai.Anyway back to the point;my parents,Dad aged 92 with AZ,Mum main carer with quite severe mobility problems,have been offered a 2 bedroom flat in extra sheltered accomodation.My brother and I visited several places,this was our favourite,manager seems to have very positive attitude re dementia,it's only 15 minute walk from my house,carers on duty 24 hours a day.When I got the call to say there was a vacancy I felt like I'd won the lottery and when we took Mum and Dad to see it Mum loved it.Now i'm wondering if I'm being totally unrealistic?Can Dad ever settle there after leaving his home of almost 50 years?I know he can't be at home for much longer,the stairs are becoming a challenge to say the least.Is it worth a try or will it be a case of out of the frying pan and into the fire?