Have any of you simply refused to care for your relative with dementia? I have a friend who is a psychogeriatric social worker and she says that when she was hospital-based A&E staff would regularly find elderly people waiting to 'be seen' having been dumped there by relatives who could no longer stand it.
I think I'm at the point where I simply don't want to shoulder my responsibilities anymore -- a combination of a verbally aggressive mother with dementia, redundancy, some physical health problems and a stroppy, unhappy teenager.
What do you think would happen if, say, when the warfarin clinic staff next phone up to complain about her not taking her medicine properly I just reply: "I'm not responsible for her medication if you think it's important she takes it then you arrange for her to take it."?
I think I'm at the point where I simply don't want to shoulder my responsibilities anymore -- a combination of a verbally aggressive mother with dementia, redundancy, some physical health problems and a stroppy, unhappy teenager.
What do you think would happen if, say, when the warfarin clinic staff next phone up to complain about her not taking her medicine properly I just reply: "I'm not responsible for her medication if you think it's important she takes it then you arrange for her to take it."?