It is going to be a very long week next week I feel. After putting it off for quite some years, the time has come that we MUST repaint our living area. I have started to clear the books from bookshelves, and generally clearing everything that may get knocked over or paint splashed out of the room. Although I explain continually what is happening in response to the questions, I still find things put back, or have 'discussions' about why has this or that been put in the spare bedroom. I know that disruption to normal routines is not ideal, but this maintenance just has to be carried out. I had intended to take my AD husband out for a few hours each day whilst the decorators were here, but he now refuses to leave them on their own. "They may need a hand/ they might take my tools" - etc etc.
How do I handle this without upsetting him further, or without turning to the bottle
How do I handle this without upsetting him further, or without turning to the bottle