I've found it increasingly upsetting when my friends talk about their mums. It started out just being a niggling envy, but over Christmas I became even more jealous than usual, not necessarily of the presents that people got, but of the fact their mums *could* buy them presents. It's the same with this easter, I keep hearing about what my friends' mums have bought them or done etc and I am so so jealous. Even when they talk about arguing with their mums, I genuinely want to slap them because I'd give anything to be able to have a normal argument with my mum. Sometimes I really struggle because I don't want to be bitter or jealous, and I want to be a normal person, but it seems like I am constantly being reminded that my mum isn't really here (and then I feel ungrateful because she is still alive.. just not the way she was)