5.16am and having just read all the previous posts I am sitting here wondering whether to go back to bed - spare room, or sneak my cold feet into bed with OH.
Had a huge row, well huge for us, on going to bed last night as I said I wanted to move so as we could take Dad in. All rubbish of course, in the almost cold light of day I know damn well it wouldn't work. I guess I am more desperate then I realised.
This Vascular Dementia is driving a wedge deep into my marriage, my being a Mum, my being a friend. I am neglecting so many people as I care full time for my Dad who I love and hate in equal part.
Just want it to stop.
But, like so many here, later this morning, I will try and be nicer to OH, I will phone my sons, I will find time for a chat with my friend, after I've sorted Dad.
Good luck today everyone.
Jane x
Had a huge row, well huge for us, on going to bed last night as I said I wanted to move so as we could take Dad in. All rubbish of course, in the almost cold light of day I know damn well it wouldn't work. I guess I am more desperate then I realised.
This Vascular Dementia is driving a wedge deep into my marriage, my being a Mum, my being a friend. I am neglecting so many people as I care full time for my Dad who I love and hate in equal part.
Just want it to stop.
But, like so many here, later this morning, I will try and be nicer to OH, I will phone my sons, I will find time for a chat with my friend, after I've sorted Dad.
Good luck today everyone.
Jane x