Mum lives alone (150yds up the road from me, handily) and I've been going with the flow since her AD diagnosis 2 yrs ago in that I don't interfere with what she will or will not do. So now she gets no exercise and (I'm noticing her breathlessness after only a few steps ), no social life (after always being very sociable)she is only eating bacon and egg, crisps, mars bars, and melons and bananas, plus drinking a lot of whisky.... She is happy and content in herself and accepts (even boasts) about her Alzheimer's. She laughs about how lazy she is but doesn't want to do any more. My question is should I start directing her a bit more.... make her come out for walks or for outings... cook her meals for her... engineer some social activities...? I know how she's living is unhealthy but she's so cheery and content just to have me visit and listen to her stories ( always the same ones, but that's my problem!) I'm torn about what's best for her.
Any thoughts welcome. Thanks for being there.
Any thoughts welcome. Thanks for being there.