Hi,
I wonder if anyone has any coping techniques for when they start to feel they are 'unravelling'?
I am the only person available to help & support my parents other than the social care they receive at home (mum wheelchair bound with MS, Dad moderate Alzheimer's)
Together my dad can help my mum physically & she makes sure he eats & drinks & organises shopping/finances etc but we are moving from one crisis to another at the moment & if it isn't one of them in the hospital it's the other. One without the other just doesn't work which is where I step in - it breaks my heart to see them struggling so.
I have had to stop working & am living part time at my parents & part time at home with my husband.
He is very supportive but needless to say our finances/relationship is suffering & i feel as though I'm being pulled in all manner of directions.
If I fall apart we are all up the creek which is starting to freak me out a bit as its all feeling a bit much at the mo.
Mum was admitted to hospital again today as her angioplasty from last week has gone wrong & there's a risk they may have to amputate her lower leg!!!
It's one thing after another :0(
Love to all caring/coping tonight xx
I wonder if anyone has any coping techniques for when they start to feel they are 'unravelling'?
I am the only person available to help & support my parents other than the social care they receive at home (mum wheelchair bound with MS, Dad moderate Alzheimer's)
Together my dad can help my mum physically & she makes sure he eats & drinks & organises shopping/finances etc but we are moving from one crisis to another at the moment & if it isn't one of them in the hospital it's the other. One without the other just doesn't work which is where I step in - it breaks my heart to see them struggling so.
I have had to stop working & am living part time at my parents & part time at home with my husband.
He is very supportive but needless to say our finances/relationship is suffering & i feel as though I'm being pulled in all manner of directions.
If I fall apart we are all up the creek which is starting to freak me out a bit as its all feeling a bit much at the mo.
Mum was admitted to hospital again today as her angioplasty from last week has gone wrong & there's a risk they may have to amputate her lower leg!!!
It's one thing after another :0(
Love to all caring/coping tonight xx