Today I have had to make the decision to put my poor dad into permanent residential care - today I feel like a failure!
I have not taken this decision lightly or quickly. My sensible side tells me it's right, not just for dad but for my mental health and for the sake of family relationships. It's so sad though and I feel so confused, alone and very guilty.
Why is Alzheimers seen as a social care issue? It's surely a health issue, a terminal illness just like cancer but you're not expected to pay for your care with cancer are you? So now I have to enter another nightmare of sorting out finances, perhaps selling property just so a hard working man who never claimed anything his whole life can be cared for.
I have not taken this decision lightly or quickly. My sensible side tells me it's right, not just for dad but for my mental health and for the sake of family relationships. It's so sad though and I feel so confused, alone and very guilty.
Why is Alzheimers seen as a social care issue? It's surely a health issue, a terminal illness just like cancer but you're not expected to pay for your care with cancer are you? So now I have to enter another nightmare of sorting out finances, perhaps selling property just so a hard working man who never claimed anything his whole life can be cared for.