Hi Folks, not been around much for a while, trying to take stock of everything that has happened.
Mum ws sectioned at the end of March (nearest available bed an hour away ) after best interest;s meeting it was decided that Mum should move into a CH. Found a nice one 2.5 miles away, the staff are lovely and we still try and take Mum out every weekend. After 3 really positive trips out last weekend was a nightmare. grumpy, angry need I say more. It has surfaced that Mum has started getting aggresive and argumentative with both carers and other residents, having apparently hit both over the past few weeks.
Have been thinking a lot about Christmas recently. Last year was the first one without Dad , this year will be without eldest daughter (just married and spending it with her in-laws) and without Mum , unbearable. I wanted to bring her home for Xmas day, but I have worried about what she would be like, would she be uncomfortable, would she struggle to go back, and now the aggression has surfaced again. I feel selfish for not wanting Mum to spoil the day... but to be honest it will be a rubbish day any way. What should I do?
Mum ws sectioned at the end of March (nearest available bed an hour away ) after best interest;s meeting it was decided that Mum should move into a CH. Found a nice one 2.5 miles away, the staff are lovely and we still try and take Mum out every weekend. After 3 really positive trips out last weekend was a nightmare. grumpy, angry need I say more. It has surfaced that Mum has started getting aggresive and argumentative with both carers and other residents, having apparently hit both over the past few weeks.
Have been thinking a lot about Christmas recently. Last year was the first one without Dad , this year will be without eldest daughter (just married and spending it with her in-laws) and without Mum , unbearable. I wanted to bring her home for Xmas day, but I have worried about what she would be like, would she be uncomfortable, would she struggle to go back, and now the aggression has surfaced again. I feel selfish for not wanting Mum to spoil the day... but to be honest it will be a rubbish day any way. What should I do?