Today Ray's battle with health problems is over

[milly123]

Sue sorry for your loss will be thinking of you at this sad time Milly

 

[Linda Mc]

Sincere sympathy Sue to you your family and friends. You have chosen a lovely photograph of Ray.

 

[Helen33]

Dear Sue,

I am so sorry to hear of the passing away of your dear Ray. The photograph you have chosen is wonderful. You and your loved ones will remain in my heart and my mind as you wak this particular part of your journey.

Much love and sympathy

 

[Dazmum]

That's a lovely photograph of Ray, Sue. Thinking of you xxx

 

[Kathphlox]

That's a special photo of Ray, he's so handsome with lovely kind eyes.

Love to you Sue.

 

[zigandzag]

What a lovely picture - sending you prayers and strength at this dreadful time x

 

[sunray]

missing Ray now

I had my daughter and her family here for two weeks and they kept me busy. We started some of the paperwork , made some phone calls and paid the last of the bills while Shirley was here to be my escort. I was really grateful for all their help and support.

They all went home two days ago. Yesterday I was fine and it was like a rest day for me. Today I decided to go to the Nursing Home Ray had been in and give out boxes of chocolates to the staff. It was probably a bit early for that as I felt wretched when I got home.

Tonight I started missing him, just missed seeing him, talking to him, feeling I was still an essential part of his life. I guess this feeling will last a while.

I will become accustomed to my widowed state I know. I have seen others go through this and know that it is a matter of putting up with the pain until it goes, or dulls down at least.

One day at a time as usual. Thanks for all your help and support.

 

[Grannie G]

We all know we may have to go through the process of bereavement and loss Sue but I`m sure it doesn`t make it any easier. xx