I think I was thinking more of earlier stages Bruce
Ah, that was going to be the problem with posing two different questions within the same thread.
I was replying to the second question, about end of life.
Training for family carers?
Well, maybe, but only if they elect to have it, and no allowance should be dependent on that, in my opinion.
I'm pretty sure that I would not have lasted the course had I know what dementia had in store for Jan. I found that coping day to day, reviewing each new symptom as it arose - and checking with the doctors - worked for me and, I hope, us.
To a degree, ignorance was bliss for me, and I learnt as we progressed.
Take a thing that happened recently. I know someone who is over 90 and had a fall just over a year ago, sustaining bad concussion.
I never really knew how concussion affects some people - for this lady, it was horrifically like suddenly jumping into mid term dementia. I was recognising all the same symptoms that Jan showed, but I knew she had been ok before the fall.
Even the consultant was sure this was quite bad dementia, but I kept reminding all the medics about the fall.
Only by moving her in with us for the odd day here and there, could we bring her back to her normal self. We have continued to spend a lot of time with her and this has been very beneficial. One doctor prescribed mild anti-psychotics - we never had that prescription fulfilled. Several times I thought that the consultant must be correct, but we have brought her to a stage that is very close to how she was before her fall.
Yes, she has some old age dementia, but is still pretty sharp.
Now, had I been new to dementia, and had I been on a course, I would have accepted what the doctors were saying and taken things at face value, and I'm pretty sure she would have been in a care home by now.
Being on the course of learning by my own experience taught me to think my way around the behaviours.
It wouldn't work for everyone, and every situation is different anyway, but making people attend a course to get their allowance would also not work universally.
Sorry to ramble... just my thoughts and opinions, as ever!