I've come on here as last week heard my sister was in hospital, we had been estranged for 5 years (a long and complicated story), she has LD's and is 65. She has been in hospital 4 weeks and I went to see her, after she agreed I could. At first I thought, oh, she seems fine, but then realised that she was not in the "now" but talking of things that happened 20-30 years ago as if it was now, sounding coherent if you didn't know better. Plus paranoia and delusions. Today I have been told that various things are being set in place, a CT scan, and mental health assessment for example. No mention of dementia but based on conversations with her friends and neighbours it seems highly likely.
To say I am upset is an understatement. All these years that have been wasted. And I don't know what to do in terms of practical things, such as her bank accounts, her flat, the post she receives. I am "next of kin" but I understand that doesn't mean a great deal. I don't want to let her down, I want to do the best for her, but I'm also very worried.
Can anyone suggest what I should ask the hospital, what I can give them regarding information and really what can I do to help her.
Byatt
To say I am upset is an understatement. All these years that have been wasted. And I don't know what to do in terms of practical things, such as her bank accounts, her flat, the post she receives. I am "next of kin" but I understand that doesn't mean a great deal. I don't want to let her down, I want to do the best for her, but I'm also very worried.
Can anyone suggest what I should ask the hospital, what I can give them regarding information and really what can I do to help her.
Byatt