I spent monday at the dr's and now have to have an ECG and blood tests as although they are certain my chest pains are stress related, they just want to check. My sister too has been to the drs about stress relate illness. We are both exhausted after 5 months of our dad being in hospital, travelling several days a week to visit, sorting out funding, dealing with social workers search for a emi nursing home and trying to keep working.
I am arguing constantly with my husband, not seeing my grown up children much and I suspect it's the same for my sister.Apart from the emotional cost, the NHS is now dealing with the cost of stress related illness , which I doubt will end anytime soon and must be extremely common.
I do appriciate that we are lucky as we have only been dealing with my dads dementia for about a year and only the last 5 months have been in crisis . I know many many people who have dealt with it a lot longer and without a fraction of the help we have had.
It got me thinking wouldn't it make economic sense, to put more money into supporting dementia patients and getting help quicker with more support, then the knock on effect would perhaps not be as great. I am sure it must cost the NHS a fortune to keep us relatives and carers healthy.
I am arguing constantly with my husband, not seeing my grown up children much and I suspect it's the same for my sister.Apart from the emotional cost, the NHS is now dealing with the cost of stress related illness , which I doubt will end anytime soon and must be extremely common.
I do appriciate that we are lucky as we have only been dealing with my dads dementia for about a year and only the last 5 months have been in crisis . I know many many people who have dealt with it a lot longer and without a fraction of the help we have had.
It got me thinking wouldn't it make economic sense, to put more money into supporting dementia patients and getting help quicker with more support, then the knock on effect would perhaps not be as great. I am sure it must cost the NHS a fortune to keep us relatives and carers healthy.