There has been a phone complaint about me to social services saying I was seen mentally and physicall abusing my mum - because I raised my voice at her in a cafe to try and stop her spilling hot coffe on me and her she was being particularly challenging and it was her first day in the home she was so distressed I took her out for a short walk she was also showing signs of dehydration - and she gets very confused and distressed when this happens she ended up pulling the table over after 2 other customers tried tio help which just made my mum worse and more agitated
2 weeks after I was sent a text message by her previouse ss worker saying there was a serious allegation and I was not to take my mum out
I have had nothing in writing but was dragged into a meeting with no notice to be told I was being investigated they would not give me any details and have not informed me what is happening I was not given any opportunity to say my side and I had informed the home of the incident when I returned from the cafe as I was so upset and mum did not want to go back to the home - and I had to ask for help to get her back to the ward
I have been told I now cannot take my mum out of the home she has recently been placed in without a staff escort - and as they have no staff available at night I cannot take her out to my home or to eat - the evenings are the worst for my mum she is so bored and has no one to talk to
A friend went to take her out tonight and I was with them and they would not let my mum out because I was with her friend my mum was devastated and so upset as she was looking forward to going out for dinner - so I am now being told if I am with anyone who wishes to take my mum out she cannot go without an escort so it seesm they are punishing her and her friends and relatives because they are apparently investigating me - can this be right - what power do they have to do this ?
Is this legal without any official written notice?
am I presumed guilty by allegation?
what authority does the home have ?
The home is now telling me the court of protection will be involved but still no letter etc
I am beside myself with worry my mum lives for me hates the home and only waits for my visits - I have many complaints outstanding with the previous ss office cpn etc covering 2 years and feel they are trying to do what they can to block anything to do with me and my mum as the home has also not answered health queries about my mum
No one seems interested on the truth only what others perceive
I feel they may well try and get my LPA taken away so that they have absolute power over my mum and I am out of the picture and cannot protect my mums needs any more
can anyone help
2 weeks after I was sent a text message by her previouse ss worker saying there was a serious allegation and I was not to take my mum out
I have had nothing in writing but was dragged into a meeting with no notice to be told I was being investigated they would not give me any details and have not informed me what is happening I was not given any opportunity to say my side and I had informed the home of the incident when I returned from the cafe as I was so upset and mum did not want to go back to the home - and I had to ask for help to get her back to the ward
I have been told I now cannot take my mum out of the home she has recently been placed in without a staff escort - and as they have no staff available at night I cannot take her out to my home or to eat - the evenings are the worst for my mum she is so bored and has no one to talk to
A friend went to take her out tonight and I was with them and they would not let my mum out because I was with her friend my mum was devastated and so upset as she was looking forward to going out for dinner - so I am now being told if I am with anyone who wishes to take my mum out she cannot go without an escort so it seesm they are punishing her and her friends and relatives because they are apparently investigating me - can this be right - what power do they have to do this ?
Is this legal without any official written notice?
am I presumed guilty by allegation?
what authority does the home have ?
The home is now telling me the court of protection will be involved but still no letter etc
I am beside myself with worry my mum lives for me hates the home and only waits for my visits - I have many complaints outstanding with the previous ss office cpn etc covering 2 years and feel they are trying to do what they can to block anything to do with me and my mum as the home has also not answered health queries about my mum
No one seems interested on the truth only what others perceive
I feel they may well try and get my LPA taken away so that they have absolute power over my mum and I am out of the picture and cannot protect my mums needs any more
can anyone help