Sometimes I think that with people who present with a mixture of symptoms that a specific diagnosis can be difficult. Some forms of dementia are more specific and have symptoms that allow a more definitive diagnosis. With my mother, for example, she started off with vascular dementia, then it was dementia with lewy bodies, then it was alzheimers, then it was mixed dementia. In our experience however, what is the most important thing is to get the diagnosis of dementia, irrespective of what type of dementia it is. It is this diagnosis that then opens up the support network, establishes the entitlement/need for a care package perhaps, medication, regular check ups and things like that. As you will see mentioned on here many times, the dementia path is very much a personal one with each person progressing in their own particular way and at their own particular pace. For this reason, from my experience, the priority is to focus on the issues that the person has at any particular time and if they need medical attention etc then address these things as they happen. It is nigh on impossible to predict what the future might bring and we found that this was the frustrating thing and that we spent a huge amount of energy pondering all the "what ifs". In the end up the family agreed that mum had "dementia" and that we'd just focus on what her needs were and i have to say that this took away a lot of the stress not only for us but also for mum as she wasn't getting trailed from pillar to post trying to get medical definitions for things which, in the bigger picture, just didn't really matter at the end of the day.
Others on here might not agree with how we approached things, and i'm just sharing our story to put a different perspective on things that might be of help to you.
Fiona
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