I lost my mum to dementia 3 months ago and the last six months of her life were awful. My dad who is 82 was obviously devastated and when he started acting strangely it was put down to his bereavement, I was unconvinced and asked for him to be tested for Alzheimer's, after memory tests and a brain scan he has now being diagnosed with two types of dementia! I don't know what to do, I have just being through it once and off we go again. My dad has always being a control freak and he is already becoming very demanding. I visit him every day but he wants me to stay for hours as he is "lonely", I have encouraged him to go out to social events etc but he refuses, he justs sits in his chair all day staring out of window and then moaning nothing is happening. He doesn't do any household chores, wash himself or change his clothes but refuses any outside help to assist him. I love him dearly but he is making me feel I'll. Help!