Hello,
My mother has Alzheimers although she's been officially diagnosed since 2007, because we caught it early she's been on medication since that time so the disease has progressed fairly slowly. She is a very able person, but suffers with poor memory and will forget to eat and all the general hygiene factors, such as washing clothes, brushing her hair etc. Basically her life relies on prompts from those around her. She now lives with us because we found trying to care for her remotely was becoming too difficult. On a day to day basis we manage fine, but when we go away at weekends or holidays that's when it all falls apart.
To give me some support during the week, we engaged a private company who provides companionship and care support. It didn't start off well, but now almost 3 month's down the line we seem to have found a good carer who works for the organisation that carries out the duties that are required. However, this carer doesn't work weekends, so when we go away for a weekend or holiday the system falls down.
All that we require is for that person to go in twice per day, at lunch time to ensure breakfast eaten and meds taken and to heat up a ready meal from Wiltshire Farm Foods, ensure drinks provided with meal and left for the afternoon (to prevent dehydration). Prepare a sandwich for tea, leave in fridge and then call again in the evening to ensure tea has been eaten, another drink provided and another left and meds taken in the evening. Nothing too difficult there. However, on several occasions it hasn't worked, hot meals have not been eaten and some medications not taken. So you can imagine my disappointment and concerns.
So what I would like to know is am I expecting too much from an external care organisation whom I pay in the region of £18-£20 per hour for this kind of service or do I need to look elsewhere for another organisation? This company came 'recommended as the best in the area' so that gives me grave concern that if this is the best what hope do I have for future weekends away/holidays?
There seems to be a distinct lack of training within these organisations. Not all of the carers seem to know how to handle situations to get individuals to eat. I would also like to add that my mother is not a difficult person, if she were persuaded to eat she would, so in my personal opinion it is a lack of training.
I would be pleased to hear if I am just expecting too much or whether I've been unlucky. Although I was talking to a friend of a friend that has relatives that have carers and she has experienced issues herself.
I would certainly suggest if you live remotely from your relative and you have carers going in, ensure they are carrying out the duties you expect of them. It's only too clear that it is because she lives with us and that we have hands on experience and knowledge that we are better able to see what is going on.
Thanks.
My mother has Alzheimers although she's been officially diagnosed since 2007, because we caught it early she's been on medication since that time so the disease has progressed fairly slowly. She is a very able person, but suffers with poor memory and will forget to eat and all the general hygiene factors, such as washing clothes, brushing her hair etc. Basically her life relies on prompts from those around her. She now lives with us because we found trying to care for her remotely was becoming too difficult. On a day to day basis we manage fine, but when we go away at weekends or holidays that's when it all falls apart.
To give me some support during the week, we engaged a private company who provides companionship and care support. It didn't start off well, but now almost 3 month's down the line we seem to have found a good carer who works for the organisation that carries out the duties that are required. However, this carer doesn't work weekends, so when we go away for a weekend or holiday the system falls down.
All that we require is for that person to go in twice per day, at lunch time to ensure breakfast eaten and meds taken and to heat up a ready meal from Wiltshire Farm Foods, ensure drinks provided with meal and left for the afternoon (to prevent dehydration). Prepare a sandwich for tea, leave in fridge and then call again in the evening to ensure tea has been eaten, another drink provided and another left and meds taken in the evening. Nothing too difficult there. However, on several occasions it hasn't worked, hot meals have not been eaten and some medications not taken. So you can imagine my disappointment and concerns.
So what I would like to know is am I expecting too much from an external care organisation whom I pay in the region of £18-£20 per hour for this kind of service or do I need to look elsewhere for another organisation? This company came 'recommended as the best in the area' so that gives me grave concern that if this is the best what hope do I have for future weekends away/holidays?
There seems to be a distinct lack of training within these organisations. Not all of the carers seem to know how to handle situations to get individuals to eat. I would also like to add that my mother is not a difficult person, if she were persuaded to eat she would, so in my personal opinion it is a lack of training.
I would be pleased to hear if I am just expecting too much or whether I've been unlucky. Although I was talking to a friend of a friend that has relatives that have carers and she has experienced issues herself.
I would certainly suggest if you live remotely from your relative and you have carers going in, ensure they are carrying out the duties you expect of them. It's only too clear that it is because she lives with us and that we have hands on experience and knowledge that we are better able to see what is going on.
Thanks.