I read the TP posts I’m amazed and humbled at the way people cope with the most distressing situations, so right now I’m telling myself to ‘get a grip’ Mum has been in a home for a couple of months now and mostly seems settled. I think she benefits from the stimulation of having more going on around her (except when they’re all stuck in front of the TV with the volume too loud) She is eating well and has even put a couple of pounds back on. But it’s killing me, I feel so sad all the time. Not visiting is not an option. So, even when you believe it’s the best thing for your loved one……. how do you stop being torn apart every time you see them??
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