An Update... not going to well
Well I have tried to move things forward over the past couple of weeks, without any great success
Went to look at extra sheltered housing yesterday, as suggested by SS. Really not the right place for Mum, open door policy which is not appropriate for someone with Dementia. If Mum has one of her "moments" she tries to run away,,, whoch she would be able to do without necessarily being noticed.
Mum has over the past 2 weeks become very agitated and concerned that people are controlling hershe shouts at carers and volunteers and tells them off
Her usual Crossroads carers has been off on holiday for 1.5 weeks than called in sick on Thursday. Got a phone call late afternoon today to say that she is now off on holiday for the next 2 weeks. Mum is getting upset about the changes to her routine, didn't like the last replacement so I daren't replace again.
OH half has had man flu, which I haven't taken seriously, got sent home Tuesday went to GP yesterday... injected Antibiotics, back today another dose, Chest Xray and more than probably Peuracy as he is so run down.
Me? running on empty, called CPN, she has written to SS, really this is 2012, who sends letters, when you have phones and emails? I have emailed as well and explained just how desperate we are. Really at a loss as to what to do next
I have financial POA and was told as an only I didn't need Health POA, seems like it has all changed, so hopefully the forms will arrive tomorrow. Tried to get in to see GP but he is off (AGAIN), will try again Monday so I can ask him to write a letter to SS as well. Maybe afterr I break I can cope for a while longer whilst I get a proper plan together, who knows, will start making calls tomorrow. Wish me luck xxx
Well I have tried to move things forward over the past couple of weeks, without any great success
Went to look at extra sheltered housing yesterday, as suggested by SS. Really not the right place for Mum, open door policy which is not appropriate for someone with Dementia. If Mum has one of her "moments" she tries to run away,,, whoch she would be able to do without necessarily being noticed.
Mum has over the past 2 weeks become very agitated and concerned that people are controlling hershe shouts at carers and volunteers and tells them off
Her usual Crossroads carers has been off on holiday for 1.5 weeks than called in sick on Thursday. Got a phone call late afternoon today to say that she is now off on holiday for the next 2 weeks. Mum is getting upset about the changes to her routine, didn't like the last replacement so I daren't replace again.
OH half has had man flu, which I haven't taken seriously, got sent home Tuesday went to GP yesterday... injected Antibiotics, back today another dose, Chest Xray and more than probably Peuracy as he is so run down.
Me? running on empty, called CPN, she has written to SS, really this is 2012, who sends letters, when you have phones and emails? I have emailed as well and explained just how desperate we are. Really at a loss as to what to do next
I have financial POA and was told as an only I didn't need Health POA, seems like it has all changed, so hopefully the forms will arrive tomorrow. Tried to get in to see GP but he is off (AGAIN), will try again Monday so I can ask him to write a letter to SS as well. Maybe afterr I break I can cope for a while longer whilst I get a proper plan together, who knows, will start making calls tomorrow. Wish me luck xxx