Morning.
Could I just ask those who have had to do it, how did you cope when you were clearing out a relatives house to sell to pay care fee's?
I'm finding it really difficult and it feels very very wrong indeed. When my Dad died and we cleared his belongings, that was hard but he was gone and that was that as it were. Mum is alive and I can't get my head around it at all.
I know she's in a carehome and can't have all the house and it's contents and most of her things, but I keep thinking that maybe she'll need it
What if we get rid and she gets better?
I feel that we are stealing from her. It feels very wrong because she's still here....I know, I know
Could I just ask those who have had to do it, how did you cope when you were clearing out a relatives house to sell to pay care fee's?
I'm finding it really difficult and it feels very very wrong indeed. When my Dad died and we cleared his belongings, that was hard but he was gone and that was that as it were. Mum is alive and I can't get my head around it at all.
I know she's in a carehome and can't have all the house and it's contents and most of her things, but I keep thinking that maybe she'll need it
What if we get rid and she gets better?
I feel that we are stealing from her. It feels very wrong because she's still here....I know, I know