Hello everyone.
Not really sure why i'm writing all this but somehow feel the need to 'let it all out' and hope that it makes me feel a tad better. Also, hope that someone may be able to give a little advice or support.
My mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers 4 years ago and since then my dad has been her primary carer. Naturally over time, mum got worse but for the most part was able to continue to live at home. However over the last 6 months she has deteriorated rapidly, culminating in a hospital stay before christmas. (dad couldn't move her from her chair and she was semi conscious).
Anyway, during her stay at hospital we were told that mum also had Vascular dementia and she had likely had a mini stroke. It was a shock to us as we had only been told she had alzheimers. Now mum can't eat by herself, is unable to walk and is incontinent. She does nothing but sit and stare. Heartbreaking.
Dad breaks down and declares that he just couldn't copy anymore, which in honesty was a relief to myself and my sister as we could tell he was struggling for a while.
So, to cut a long story short, mum is now in a care home, which due to personal finances mum is funding herself for the next few months until her income goes below 23k.
When i talked to the soical worker I asked how she could be deemed as 'social' care when she is incapable of looking after herself? and wasn't it the case that if someone is medically diagnosed in hospital aren't they eligible to claim 'continuing care'?
I was told that i had little chance of claiming as mum is classed as needing social help, not medical.
so here is my question....
Has anyone had any luck claiming 'Continuing care', specifically where dementia is concerned?
I suppose i'm dealing with this emotionally by being very practical and trying to 'sort things out' which i know will bite me on the bum at some point but it's helping for now.
Any help, advice would be appreciate.
Thanks
Jules
Not really sure why i'm writing all this but somehow feel the need to 'let it all out' and hope that it makes me feel a tad better. Also, hope that someone may be able to give a little advice or support.
My mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers 4 years ago and since then my dad has been her primary carer. Naturally over time, mum got worse but for the most part was able to continue to live at home. However over the last 6 months she has deteriorated rapidly, culminating in a hospital stay before christmas. (dad couldn't move her from her chair and she was semi conscious).
Anyway, during her stay at hospital we were told that mum also had Vascular dementia and she had likely had a mini stroke. It was a shock to us as we had only been told she had alzheimers. Now mum can't eat by herself, is unable to walk and is incontinent. She does nothing but sit and stare. Heartbreaking.
Dad breaks down and declares that he just couldn't copy anymore, which in honesty was a relief to myself and my sister as we could tell he was struggling for a while.
So, to cut a long story short, mum is now in a care home, which due to personal finances mum is funding herself for the next few months until her income goes below 23k.
When i talked to the soical worker I asked how she could be deemed as 'social' care when she is incapable of looking after herself? and wasn't it the case that if someone is medically diagnosed in hospital aren't they eligible to claim 'continuing care'?
I was told that i had little chance of claiming as mum is classed as needing social help, not medical.
so here is my question....
Has anyone had any luck claiming 'Continuing care', specifically where dementia is concerned?
I suppose i'm dealing with this emotionally by being very practical and trying to 'sort things out' which i know will bite me on the bum at some point but it's helping for now.
Any help, advice would be appreciate.
Thanks
Jules