Following surgery for a broken hip, my eighty-eight year old Mum's dementia has rapidly progressed to the point where she is now in a care home. She has gone from being a fairly mobile lady to one who can no longer put one foot in front of the other or do anything for herself without help (including going to the toilet). She does not eat or drink very much, has lost a lot of weight, communicates very little and spends most of her time with her eyes shut although she seems to be awake. In addition, she believes that she is in her own flat even though the home is obviously very different to her flat. For instance she will tell me there are drinks in her kitchen or she will ask me to stay the night in her other bedroom, although she only has one room. She does not seem to notice the difference. Is this a common symptom of dementia?
Hi and thank you all for your replies. Unfortunately, my Mum is not happy at all. Although she thinks she is in her own home, she will occasionaly ask me when she is going to go home, although i'm sure she no longer knows where home is. She cries a lot although i'm not sure why and she has no quality of life at all. I think that if she could step out of her body and look at herself, she would be horrified at what she has become and would ask me to help end it all for her. I really do think that it is now time for her to let go and pass away. My Mum is a deeply private and dignified lady and after all, life is about the quality of life and now she has no quality at all. I think that I am still in shock sometimes at how quickly she has deteriorated. I am taking 'happy pills' from the Dr but to be honest, they are not helping, I just want my Mum back