Hi,
I am looking for some advice really as my MIL who has VD/AD (late stages), is sleeping all day and awake all night and we dont know what to do for FIL who is now desperate for some sleep.
He is off to the doctor in the morning so he is going to talk to him but, I just wondered if it's because we are letting her sleep all day that she is more active at night?
The sleeping all day has been going on for about 3 weeks but, she is getting up later and later (6pm ish) and now the awake most of the night has started. She has lost her ability of speech so she cannot tell us how she feels and this just makes it worse for us as we have to guess if she is in pain etc. I don't think she is in pain because she has a sing song whilst awake at night!!.
I hate seeing them both in this situation.
She also keeps going against what my FIL wants or asks her to do which makes things really difficult. When he says are you getting up she will not but, when we go (twice a week at least), she is happy to get up for us. The same thing happens when going to bed. We cannot go every morning and night because its a 60 mile round trip for us and I think eventually if we were doing that, she would go against us anyway.
I feel so helpless sometimes - as I am sure most of you do x
I am looking for some advice really as my MIL who has VD/AD (late stages), is sleeping all day and awake all night and we dont know what to do for FIL who is now desperate for some sleep.
He is off to the doctor in the morning so he is going to talk to him but, I just wondered if it's because we are letting her sleep all day that she is more active at night?
The sleeping all day has been going on for about 3 weeks but, she is getting up later and later (6pm ish) and now the awake most of the night has started. She has lost her ability of speech so she cannot tell us how she feels and this just makes it worse for us as we have to guess if she is in pain etc. I don't think she is in pain because she has a sing song whilst awake at night!!.
I hate seeing them both in this situation.
She also keeps going against what my FIL wants or asks her to do which makes things really difficult. When he says are you getting up she will not but, when we go (twice a week at least), she is happy to get up for us. The same thing happens when going to bed. We cannot go every morning and night because its a 60 mile round trip for us and I think eventually if we were doing that, she would go against us anyway.
I feel so helpless sometimes - as I am sure most of you do x