Thanks for this very interesting info. I feel very passionately about this - my heart goes out to all the elderly carers struggling to cope, often with a 'stiff upper lip' because that is how their generation was brought up.
I have just sent an email to my local Primary Care Trust and will be sending them another one with these websites. Who knows, it might do some good.
I contacted them because I have steam coming out of my ears, in trying to get the wax out my MIL's ears
and getting a nurse to come to the house to syringe them, but they dont do it in my area. I said I would happily pay for it, but NO!!
Mum has stage 6/7 Alzheimers, she is blind and now totally deaf. She is also a severe asthmatic and has a pacemaker. Its been a nighmare putting eardrops in for a few days and leaving her hearing aid out. (I do put it back for a minute to tell her things, but she then forgets) She has been shouting worse than ever, asks things but then cant hear the response.
I am a 'young' elderly carer, having only this year retired. - I dont know how an older carer would be able to cope with this. Only at the expense of their health. My husband is due to have an angioplasty soon so needs to avoid stress, putting more stress on me as I am trying to keep MIL quiet. But she will still shout if I sit next to her, because she cant see me.
I have asked the PCT how they expect a bed bound person to get their ears syringed and am waiting to hear.
OOOO, Im grumpy today.
Coletta xx