Hi
Sorry I have not been on in a while, as some of us will remember I have not been happy with Mum's home for a while, well, since last Christmas really. A few months ago we got a new manager, and things improved a little, then fell back again. The short story is I started looking again for another home as I felt a little better in myself and found a home that came recommended near me. I am looking to move Mum this week or next though I am getting a private ambulance to move her as she is too poorly to move by taxi or car. I sincerely hope I am doing the right thing, I have done lots of research and really looked into it this time. I've been back there lots of times and really had a good look round.
My sister is not very keen on moving Mum and basically said she hopes it's not a frying pan and fire job, but it's up to me. I would feel happier if she would come and have a look round with me, but I don't think she finds the travelling easy.
Mum had a shower yesterday which I helped with, she vomited three times. I was very upset and had to come out of her room to have a good bawl. She was prescribed meds to help with nausea for personal care but they had not been given.
I do like all the carers - as I have said before, there just aren't enough of them - but surely, there's got to be a good enough home out there. What woudl I like? Mum to be fed and watered, washed each day and talked to affectionately.
Is that too much to ask?
So now I am terrified that the move is the wrong thing, my sister will blame me, Mum will be ill on the journey, she will have a down turn, lots of people have said I am doing the right thing, but this is so hard. Any reassurance would be very gratefully received. xxxx
Sorry I have not been on in a while, as some of us will remember I have not been happy with Mum's home for a while, well, since last Christmas really. A few months ago we got a new manager, and things improved a little, then fell back again. The short story is I started looking again for another home as I felt a little better in myself and found a home that came recommended near me. I am looking to move Mum this week or next though I am getting a private ambulance to move her as she is too poorly to move by taxi or car. I sincerely hope I am doing the right thing, I have done lots of research and really looked into it this time. I've been back there lots of times and really had a good look round.
My sister is not very keen on moving Mum and basically said she hopes it's not a frying pan and fire job, but it's up to me. I would feel happier if she would come and have a look round with me, but I don't think she finds the travelling easy.
Mum had a shower yesterday which I helped with, she vomited three times. I was very upset and had to come out of her room to have a good bawl. She was prescribed meds to help with nausea for personal care but they had not been given.
I do like all the carers - as I have said before, there just aren't enough of them - but surely, there's got to be a good enough home out there. What woudl I like? Mum to be fed and watered, washed each day and talked to affectionately.
Is that too much to ask?
So now I am terrified that the move is the wrong thing, my sister will blame me, Mum will be ill on the journey, she will have a down turn, lots of people have said I am doing the right thing, but this is so hard. Any reassurance would be very gratefully received. xxxx