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I care for my mother aged 88 years of age who lives alone in warden scheme ground floor flat. She has district nurse go in once a day in morning to give insulin as she is diabetic. She has poor mobility but still gets around using zimmer frame. I have employed a carer who has been marvelous and she visits mom 3 times a day, morning, lunchtime and early evening. She is unfortunately on holiday now for 3 weeks and I have taken over caring for mom. Since Friday mom has repeatedly asked me to take her home as her home of 28 years is not hers!!!!!!!! I have tried tactics of telling her that her home has workmen in and she cannot go home as it is unfit. This worked until tonight when she got very aggressive and abusive and started to sob like a child. I am worried as not sure whether she will find the strength to get out of her flat with walking frame and fall or that she will get more and more distressed about going home. Her dementia is strange as she still knows who I am and all other members of family and is not taken in by what I am saying to her. Please help with suggestions?
I care for my mother aged 88 years of age who lives alone in warden scheme ground floor flat. She has district nurse go in once a day in morning to give insulin as she is diabetic. She has poor mobility but still gets around using zimmer frame. I have employed a carer who has been marvelous and she visits mom 3 times a day, morning, lunchtime and early evening. She is unfortunately on holiday now for 3 weeks and I have taken over caring for mom. Since Friday mom has repeatedly asked me to take her home as her home of 28 years is not hers!!!!!!!! I have tried tactics of telling her that her home has workmen in and she cannot go home as it is unfit. This worked until tonight when she got very aggressive and abusive and started to sob like a child. I am worried as not sure whether she will find the strength to get out of her flat with walking frame and fall or that she will get more and more distressed about going home. Her dementia is strange as she still knows who I am and all other members of family and is not taken in by what I am saying to her. Please help with suggestions?