We have noticed Mums memory has been getting worse for a while now. Earlier this year she fell through the night & also had a bad water burn on her arm, the worrying thing is, she couldn't remember falling or how she got the burn. I was very worried & talked to her doctor who was also worried and a doctor came to her house to access her. Mum was then sent an appointment to go to a memory clinic in June & I said I would go with her but she refused to go, saying her memory was ok.
Since then she seemed to have got worse & she is getting aggressive sometimes, like shouting, which is unusual for Mum.
Me & my husband live abroad but I call her everyday & I most of the time Mum tells me the same thing day after day. I am getting so worried about her, not just because of her memory but when we were home in June she had a couple of phone calls from
companies that were going to work on her roof & even new windows, both that
don't need doing. Fortunately, this time she had not given them any money & we were there and able to cancel the jobs.
Mum does go out everyday on the bus but sometimes can't remember the place she has been to. Mum did say that people with a memory problem wouldn't do that, so her memory is ok!
My daughter lives not far from Mum & goes to seen her often & her neighbours keep and eye on her & both have noticed how she is changing.
Can anyone please advise what we can do next to help her, I knownit's difficult as she won't go to the memory clinic & refuses to talk to her doctor about it.
Thank you
Since then she seemed to have got worse & she is getting aggressive sometimes, like shouting, which is unusual for Mum.
Me & my husband live abroad but I call her everyday & I most of the time Mum tells me the same thing day after day. I am getting so worried about her, not just because of her memory but when we were home in June she had a couple of phone calls from
companies that were going to work on her roof & even new windows, both that
don't need doing. Fortunately, this time she had not given them any money & we were there and able to cancel the jobs.
Mum does go out everyday on the bus but sometimes can't remember the place she has been to. Mum did say that people with a memory problem wouldn't do that, so her memory is ok!
My daughter lives not far from Mum & goes to seen her often & her neighbours keep and eye on her & both have noticed how she is changing.
Can anyone please advise what we can do next to help her, I knownit's difficult as she won't go to the memory clinic & refuses to talk to her doctor about it.
Thank you