Hi all, I am new to this forum and hope to be able to learn from other's experiences to help me cope with my aging mum. She has a mix of vascular dementure and alzheimer's and is probably in the early to mid stages of the disease. Short term memory is extremely poor, she is often quite agressive, but still knows who I am.
I feel that I am coping reasonably well and with the help and support of a pretty good community care package will be able to continue to keep mum realtively comfortable in her own home as long as possible.
The main issue I am struggling with at this point is the amount of time I am spending supporting mum. I visit her usually 4 -5 times each week and spend about an hour with her. This seems quite reasonable to me and it represents a sustainable balance between my work and normal home life. My wife is unfortunately not very supportive and thinks I spend too much time supporting mum.
I was wondering how much time folk typically spend caring for their loved ones? Are your partners supportive or do they also find it difficult?
best regards
Graham
I feel that I am coping reasonably well and with the help and support of a pretty good community care package will be able to continue to keep mum realtively comfortable in her own home as long as possible.
The main issue I am struggling with at this point is the amount of time I am spending supporting mum. I visit her usually 4 -5 times each week and spend about an hour with her. This seems quite reasonable to me and it represents a sustainable balance between my work and normal home life. My wife is unfortunately not very supportive and thinks I spend too much time supporting mum.
I was wondering how much time folk typically spend caring for their loved ones? Are your partners supportive or do they also find it difficult?
best regards
Graham