Good morning,
I wonder if you could help My mums been taken into a carehome for her saftey. She's got vascular frontal temporal mixed dementia. I am finding it very hard to come to terms with her not being at home. I go and see her most days, My mums been in the home for 5 weeks on monday. Mums not settling very well although the staff say this can take some time. Feeling very guilty and upset. I also have another problem well several mum was placed in the home by the memory clinic and the care manager, I was informed i had 24 hrs to decide about the home as places for emi dont come up often, nothing was mentioned about how much the home charges. I am now been pressured for top up charges, on top of that they are now saying my mum should be self funding due to owning the bungalow. I sold my flat in london 16 yrs ago to look after my mum when my dad died due to her depression. Just feel like everything against me want to just run away. I have booked an appointment with the family solicitor for some help but just feel everything getting on top off me.
I wonder if you could help My mums been taken into a carehome for her saftey. She's got vascular frontal temporal mixed dementia. I am finding it very hard to come to terms with her not being at home. I go and see her most days, My mums been in the home for 5 weeks on monday. Mums not settling very well although the staff say this can take some time. Feeling very guilty and upset. I also have another problem well several mum was placed in the home by the memory clinic and the care manager, I was informed i had 24 hrs to decide about the home as places for emi dont come up often, nothing was mentioned about how much the home charges. I am now been pressured for top up charges, on top of that they are now saying my mum should be self funding due to owning the bungalow. I sold my flat in london 16 yrs ago to look after my mum when my dad died due to her depression. Just feel like everything against me want to just run away. I have booked an appointment with the family solicitor for some help but just feel everything getting on top off me.