Mum low in CH: sis talking about taking Mum back to her home 24/7 but: sis away last week (tues-sun) and away again this week (fri-sun): bro visited CH 3 times in 7 weeks: guess who would be expected to be there to do it all, or am I wrong? (yes, I also have work to do)
SO difficult in that it seems one of two things will happen: either Mum is happy at home and we (for that, read ME) lose our life OR Mum is not happy at CH but we (that is, me) are happy (for that I suppose I mean we have something resembling a life of our own at times)
If this makes me sound cold and harsh, so be it: I'm tired of being tired, unhappy at being unhappy, upset at being upset, distressed at being distressed...
Spoke about this to sis and bro: sis says I need mental help (! - look at whole picture); told bro holds phone against his ear because doesn't wan't to hear what I say...
Totally fed up: my Mum has 3 children, not 1 ...)
SO difficult in that it seems one of two things will happen: either Mum is happy at home and we (for that, read ME) lose our life OR Mum is not happy at CH but we (that is, me) are happy (for that I suppose I mean we have something resembling a life of our own at times)
If this makes me sound cold and harsh, so be it: I'm tired of being tired, unhappy at being unhappy, upset at being upset, distressed at being distressed...
Spoke about this to sis and bro: sis says I need mental help (! - look at whole picture); told bro holds phone against his ear because doesn't wan't to hear what I say...
Totally fed up: my Mum has 3 children, not 1 ...)