I visited my mum today and she is much the same refusing to eat and fluid intake is not great.She is so frail and her body has become skelleton like. I changed her clothes today while i was there and i was so upset to see how thin her body has got its just unreal. Myself and mums sister spent a few hours with her today just holding her hand and giving her hugs and kisses.I was so upset leaving her and ive been crying all evening just cant believe how ill she is.
It didn't help the fact that mums dentures were missing and nobody seem to know were they were ive asked the nurses to try and locate them.I cant understand how they go missing as ther is a container for them in the bathroom and surely thats were they should be put at night . I sometimes think staff can be careless and when things go missing they deny all knowledge.The trousers mum had on were all stained with what looked like dried food and of course i got annoyed and changed them. I also mentioned this to the nurse and let her know i was not pleased. My mum has plenty of lovely clothes and ther is no need for her to be left in stained clothes to me its not very dignified.
Maybe i am being over sessitive about theese issues but i just want my mum to be as comfortable as possible for the short time she has left . If i dont speak up for her then who will. Sorry to go on and on but im just feeling so low and needed to let it out.
Shauna
It didn't help the fact that mums dentures were missing and nobody seem to know were they were ive asked the nurses to try and locate them.I cant understand how they go missing as ther is a container for them in the bathroom and surely thats were they should be put at night . I sometimes think staff can be careless and when things go missing they deny all knowledge.The trousers mum had on were all stained with what looked like dried food and of course i got annoyed and changed them. I also mentioned this to the nurse and let her know i was not pleased. My mum has plenty of lovely clothes and ther is no need for her to be left in stained clothes to me its not very dignified.
Maybe i am being over sessitive about theese issues but i just want my mum to be as comfortable as possible for the short time she has left . If i dont speak up for her then who will. Sorry to go on and on but im just feeling so low and needed to let it out.
Shauna