Hi all, sorry I haven't been around much recently. I have had another chest infection so haven't been able to see Mum.This is posing problems as I have to take her to the dentist on Friday.
I'm not sure whether she will still recognize me after a 2 week break.My husband visited on my behalf and she hadn't a clue who he was, but up until then she'd usually known me even if it took a few minutes for her to work it out.
Her teeth are all rotten[ they've always been poor] and her gums are awful.The CH tried her with mouth wash but she kept swallowing it.Then they tried getting her to brush with the mouthwash on her toothbrush but it was too sore so they asked me to sort out a dentist which I have done.
Trouble is she is dentist phobic and always has been. At one point before she got the dementias I had found a private dentist who she agreed to see and she trusted but we can't afford that any more and anyway it's a fair journey to get there which Mum can no longer cope with so I have booked her with a local NHS dentist.I am worried she will panic as she hates going anywhere new,I doubt she would remember the dentist she trusted but will she remember she is terrified of dental work? I shall be with her but even so I am anticipating some real problems especially if she isn't sure of who I am.
Has anyone any similar experience and if so are there any suggestions as to how to help her through this.She absolutely has to be seen, I suspect they'll want to remove all her teeth as they are so bad and wobbly, then we may have to go down the route of dentures or not. I am not looking forward to any of this:-(
I'm not sure whether she will still recognize me after a 2 week break.My husband visited on my behalf and she hadn't a clue who he was, but up until then she'd usually known me even if it took a few minutes for her to work it out.
Her teeth are all rotten[ they've always been poor] and her gums are awful.The CH tried her with mouth wash but she kept swallowing it.Then they tried getting her to brush with the mouthwash on her toothbrush but it was too sore so they asked me to sort out a dentist which I have done.
Trouble is she is dentist phobic and always has been. At one point before she got the dementias I had found a private dentist who she agreed to see and she trusted but we can't afford that any more and anyway it's a fair journey to get there which Mum can no longer cope with so I have booked her with a local NHS dentist.I am worried she will panic as she hates going anywhere new,I doubt she would remember the dentist she trusted but will she remember she is terrified of dental work? I shall be with her but even so I am anticipating some real problems especially if she isn't sure of who I am.
Has anyone any similar experience and if so are there any suggestions as to how to help her through this.She absolutely has to be seen, I suspect they'll want to remove all her teeth as they are so bad and wobbly, then we may have to go down the route of dentures or not. I am not looking forward to any of this:-(