Just new to the forum so hi to all! Feeling very down today and just wanted to let off steam really. My Mum lives with me and my husband and has done for the past 3 years. She suffers from dementia which seems to be progressing very quickly at the moment. She still knows all the family but cannot remember the day, month, year, her tablets etc etc. I've got used to her repeating the same things over and over again and can let it go over my head but she has developed a very bad habit in the last eight weeks or so. She had a small spot on the side of her nose which she has picked and picked and picked. I tell her about 60 times a day to leave it alone but she swears that she hasn't touched it at all that day. I have tried putting a plaster on it but she takes it off and says she feels stupid wearing it. I have tried to put antiseptic cream on it to keep it moist. I took her to see her GP yesterday and he mentioned it could be a rodent ulcer but couldn't confirm it as she has torn up the skin on her nose so much. She has an appointment for the dematologist next week but I know he won't be able to tell either as she is still not leaving her nose alone despite the GP being quite firm with her. I am at my wits end. I know she is going to end up with an infection and it is so frustrating. I try to keep in mind that she can't help it but it is driving me crazy. When I tell her to leave it alone she says she wishes she was "out of it" or it would be better if she was in a home. I know she doesn't mean it and is just showing off. Its such a shame as she was so strong for me in the past. Well sorry all just wanted to rant - going to try and go to bed now and relax ready for tomorrow