Hi, I care for my MIL who lives in an annex, without a loo, at our house. She has moderate dementia (they think alzheimers) and has been on aricept for a 8 months. She has started wandering at night, trying to make tea (sometimes unsuccessfully), "washing" her bed pad, etc. She wears pads and a carer comes twice a day to change her and deal with hygiene issues. I find the wandering at night quite freaky, and I need my sleep. We have a gas stove and I'm worried she'll turn it on. This morning, before we were awake, she soaked a bedpad and left it on the carpet to "dry". Carpet soaked. Unusually, because his parents were quite old when he was born, we have a young family of 9, 3 and 8 months (hence the need for sleep!). I have to prioritise the safety of my children and therefore would like to lock her bedroom door between 11pm and 6.30am. I am thinking about everyone's safety. The loo is in the main house but she is wearing a pad 24/7. Am I allowed to do this?? The carer this morning said I would be breeching her human rights. But what about the rights of my small children to live in a safe environment? Please advise!