Hi I am new to this forum, I have an elderly parent who will not let me help, they have got very forgetful, and refuses to see the Doctor, I also worry if she is eating enough as she forgets what she has eaten, she does not go out much at all now, but keeps saying that she must go somewhere tomorrow but does not go, she lives alone and I can only get to visit once a week most weeks, she is not taking care of her appearance and is not looking well, how do I get her help without offending her, I would have her to live with me, but she does not want to move, and I know that I may have to move in with her but that will be quite a problem, I dont know if she has Alzheimers but it is possible, I speak to her every day on the phone, and some days she thinks I am still there and have not gone home, If she had to go to hospital or move I think it would make her worse, she does not have many friends to visit her and I am the only help she has, should I call her doctor or wait untill she has to have help?