Nighttime Anxiety

[nellbelles]

Tom woke me in the middle of the night, he was sobbing and distraught,

He was totally convinced that he had upset me and it took me a long to settle him.

He is still tearful this morning, I am a loss of how to deal with this, it is so hard to see him so upset.

 

[Grannie G]

Dear Helen

Oh dear! This is so sad.
Do you think Tom might be picking up on any anxieties you might be having. Dementia or not, I do know Blind people are extra sensitive at picking up vibes.
Whatever the cause, it`s just another addition to the stress you are under . xx

 

[nellbelles]

Kassy

Yes it is heartbreaking, just trying to have a quiet day for Tom

 

[sad nell]

Helen hope your Tom is calmer, Now what have you been upto , Trev can pick up on my vibes, even if I think i am hiding my distress, he just acts more agitated if I am down. expect it will be same with Tom, but we cannot always be sunshine and light and I never was very good at faking it. Hope Tom has a much better day and gives you a break, how are the spanish lessons going. well i hope OLA. love to you both Pam

 

[nellbelles]

Sylvia

Yes I think Tom is picking up on all the hospital and Docs visits.

I need a distraction tactic, wish the weather was better, Tom hates going out in the cold and wet.

I need to buy him a new vac then he can potter about upstairs