Hello,
my husband and us as a family are just going through the stage of memory clinics, scans and doctor's appointments to determine where the memory loss and change in personality come from. It looks very likely that it is Alzheimers (at the moment it is called cognitive impairment with memory loss or Dementia). Today we were told by a doctor that my husband should surrender his driving licence and we should start claiming benefits with the help of the Citizens Advice Bureau. We have never received any benefits so far. My husband is 62 and has always been working until he was dismissed via disciplinary procedure in January this year. His work standards dropped and he did do the wrong jobs. When confronted, he walked out of conversations or just stayed silence. At the time, I suspected depression or bullying at work, but it now is clear that he lost his job due to the illness. So far we could not claim anything because to the outside world it looks like that he did not work properly and got sacked for it. Now we have an underlying medical reason, help may be in sight. (We have been struggeling to financially survive this far with a mortgage and full-time childcare for a 4-year old.) I just don't know where to start. I would like to know what to ask at the Citizens Advice Bureau and I am not always sure if people tell you all the things you are entitled to or if you just have to find out for yourself??? The doctor mentioned Incapacity Benefit, the CAB lady on the phone said Disability Living Allowance and I come across Pension Credits for over 60-year olds. Also, is there any support for transport costs now my husband cannot drive anymore to get to places. We live quite remotely and you are dependent on a car really. So as it stands, my husband is stuck at home (not sure if he would cope with going out alone if he could) and I need to work full-time day and night to keep us ticking over. It seems a vicious circle. Where is the door to get out???
If you can help and guide me in the right direction, that would be great. I just feel a little overwhelmed at the moment and do not know where to take the time from to do lon-lasting research etc. beside working full-time, looking after my husband and doing nursery runs etc.PLEASE HELP!
Thanks for your time to reply! Ceetee
my husband and us as a family are just going through the stage of memory clinics, scans and doctor's appointments to determine where the memory loss and change in personality come from. It looks very likely that it is Alzheimers (at the moment it is called cognitive impairment with memory loss or Dementia). Today we were told by a doctor that my husband should surrender his driving licence and we should start claiming benefits with the help of the Citizens Advice Bureau. We have never received any benefits so far. My husband is 62 and has always been working until he was dismissed via disciplinary procedure in January this year. His work standards dropped and he did do the wrong jobs. When confronted, he walked out of conversations or just stayed silence. At the time, I suspected depression or bullying at work, but it now is clear that he lost his job due to the illness. So far we could not claim anything because to the outside world it looks like that he did not work properly and got sacked for it. Now we have an underlying medical reason, help may be in sight. (We have been struggeling to financially survive this far with a mortgage and full-time childcare for a 4-year old.) I just don't know where to start. I would like to know what to ask at the Citizens Advice Bureau and I am not always sure if people tell you all the things you are entitled to or if you just have to find out for yourself??? The doctor mentioned Incapacity Benefit, the CAB lady on the phone said Disability Living Allowance and I come across Pension Credits for over 60-year olds. Also, is there any support for transport costs now my husband cannot drive anymore to get to places. We live quite remotely and you are dependent on a car really. So as it stands, my husband is stuck at home (not sure if he would cope with going out alone if he could) and I need to work full-time day and night to keep us ticking over. It seems a vicious circle. Where is the door to get out???
If you can help and guide me in the right direction, that would be great. I just feel a little overwhelmed at the moment and do not know where to take the time from to do lon-lasting research etc. beside working full-time, looking after my husband and doing nursery runs etc.PLEASE HELP!
Thanks for your time to reply! Ceetee