things that help
Hi all
Music and children's colouring in books seem to help my Mum calm down, But we have noticed, that within a couple of months, from using many colours on a page she now uses only one, so I don't know how much longer, "colouring in" will work. She also needs to talk all of the time, it doesn't matter to whom, or the subject, just as long as she is talking.
My Dad also has AD, but has always been a very quiet person and is becoming quieter, it is diffcult to say what works for him except, time out, from Mum and the company of other males. Male company is hard to provide on a regular basis, because there are only myself and my 2 daughters and a cousin (all female) who have daily contact. Unfortunately our husbands work in other countries and are not always at home to keep Dad company and that is when he has an episode, as I call it. Asking, who is that woman? (my Mum) and telling her to leave, or he says, he is leaving.
If we can manage to get Dad time on his own and a sleep, without Mum constantly going on about "HIM" wanting to leave her and throwing her out etc. or shaking him awake to see if he is sleeping, he will wake up his normal placid self, or as normal as it gets with AD, worrying about Mum.
It must be hard for both of them, each not understanding that the other can't help what they do, because to them, at the time it is for real.
Sorry for rambling on a bit, I only meant to let others know what works for this family
Alfjess