My father has alzeimers and is in a home. My mother has passed away and use to visit him every day. The nurses tell him over and over again that she has passed on, he hears this every time he forgets and wonders where she is. I am at a loss and feel whenever he asks now that we should not keep tormenting him and say "she is resting". I feel that the staff should also tell him this because she use to tell him she could not visit him because she was resting. Is there any way of handling this any other way...is it ok to just say she is resting. I am concerned my father may have anxiety attacks or begin to get depressed as he is already prone to depression.