I haven't logged in for a while but I read all the amazing stories about how many of you have not just been carers but actually care soo much and I felt bad for reading and not replying
MIL has been with us 7 months,
We have a have a 1 year old, 6 year old and baby due next month.
After deterioration ( oh the stories we all have)but final straw small children need to locked in at night-- we have decided that best thing is to sell her house and move on---we can't sustain a family life anyome ( we moved into her house when she went into a dementia home- after a year and not being happy with her care we wanted to try to care for her in her home with our family so brought her back)
Am wracked with guilt cos we failed after just 7 months.
Also we are homeless as we have no savings/income as husband gave up civil engineer job to care for her.
Council put on onlist--8/10 month wait. House completes in 3 weeks.
House is sold and ready for her to move into fabulous place in her original village with friends she knew ( in respite she remembered them so really hoping she does when she moves in)
Tried to do the best thingxx Now homelessx
Glad we tried.
Just at a loss to what to do now.
MIL has been with us 7 months,
We have a have a 1 year old, 6 year old and baby due next month.
After deterioration ( oh the stories we all have)but final straw small children need to locked in at night-- we have decided that best thing is to sell her house and move on---we can't sustain a family life anyome ( we moved into her house when she went into a dementia home- after a year and not being happy with her care we wanted to try to care for her in her home with our family so brought her back)
Am wracked with guilt cos we failed after just 7 months.
Also we are homeless as we have no savings/income as husband gave up civil engineer job to care for her.
Council put on onlist--8/10 month wait. House completes in 3 weeks.
House is sold and ready for her to move into fabulous place in her original village with friends she knew ( in respite she remembered them so really hoping she does when she moves in)
Tried to do the best thingxx Now homelessx
Glad we tried.
Just at a loss to what to do now.