Hi, not been here for a while since my Dad had dementia in 2007/2008. Now trying to deal with Mom. Mom now in a nursing home and was diagnosed with dementia about 3 months ago. She has been able to talk and conversational but lately has become very quiet, ie. not much conversation being raised, only answers questions when you ask her. Last few days, doesn't seem to be able to hear us? She is not answering at all or showing any signs of response when we talk to her. She has a brief period of a few minutes where she is responsive. Also, now saying the dreaded 'please help me'. Heard this so many times in homes, hospitals etc. Her meds have been changed but only in the last 3 days so I don't think this would have any effect ?? Can anyone shed any light on the hearing thing, as I think she can hear it, but is unable to respond. I've been through all this with Dad, but so depressing having to deal with it all again. What's the best thing to say/do when she is asking for help. Any advice appreciated. Thanks all, I remember this forum being very helpful before.