GRR--
This morning when trying to guide MIL upstairs with her washing-(usually NO probs!) lashed out shoting at me to stop ushing her(hand on arm- NOTHING unusual) and shouting about wanting three of them all back.
Husband was cutting lawn. Seem to have bigger prob with when she knows he's not in house she ignores or gets "arsey" ( would put it nicer but not in the mood) with me. She responds to him but increasingly not so to me. Practically with 2 kids and one on way there arew times I need to ask her to "come away" ( kitchen hob) or other things when hubby not in room.
getting tlo ppint where can't ask her to do anything for fear of reprisal from her.
This morning when trying to guide MIL upstairs with her washing-(usually NO probs!) lashed out shoting at me to stop ushing her(hand on arm- NOTHING unusual) and shouting about wanting three of them all back.
Husband was cutting lawn. Seem to have bigger prob with when she knows he's not in house she ignores or gets "arsey" ( would put it nicer but not in the mood) with me. She responds to him but increasingly not so to me. Practically with 2 kids and one on way there arew times I need to ask her to "come away" ( kitchen hob) or other things when hubby not in room.
getting tlo ppint where can't ask her to do anything for fear of reprisal from her.