Hi, Ive not been on here for a long long time but am getting rather upset and just needed to vent all my feelings.
Two weeks ago now my grandmother was taken from home to emergency care home as my grandfather was no longer able to give her the care she was needed. she was put on the 'end of life care' have visited her severals times in her new carehome, (which i can not knock, there great with her and the family) but she looks awful. Her hands and feet are blue, she has stopped communicating completely, she doesnt open her eyes and last week she started making awful 'rattling' noises when she's breathing.
Everytime i leave, i say goodbye expecting that to be the last time. My grandfather has been a rock to her and he has now realised with the help of his family and nurses that this is 'it' he is giving her reassurance's that he'll be okay and so will we.
I havent really got any questions i just needed to put it all down i guess.
Sorry for the ramble.
Thank you
Lindsay
Two weeks ago now my grandmother was taken from home to emergency care home as my grandfather was no longer able to give her the care she was needed. she was put on the 'end of life care' have visited her severals times in her new carehome, (which i can not knock, there great with her and the family) but she looks awful. Her hands and feet are blue, she has stopped communicating completely, she doesnt open her eyes and last week she started making awful 'rattling' noises when she's breathing.
Everytime i leave, i say goodbye expecting that to be the last time. My grandfather has been a rock to her and he has now realised with the help of his family and nurses that this is 'it' he is giving her reassurance's that he'll be okay and so will we.
I havent really got any questions i just needed to put it all down i guess.
Sorry for the ramble.
Thank you
Lindsay