Dear god i think i am bout to have a nervous breakdown before i get mother out the door.
I left home before 7am yesterday and came back after 8pm, to find a house untouched apart from a pile of god knows what stuffed into a bag with mother telling me she was packed Packed her case - properly, then this morning i discover another bag of stuff, no idea what a;; that was about!!!
Anyway i was way too tired to shower her last night so said that i would do it in the morning, more fool me for having an extra 20 minutes in bed today, got up to find mother fully dressed, but undoubtedly unwashed (towels cloths etc all bone dry), so i had to make her undress so she could get showered. Grump sulk shout,just a few of the usual display from mother when she doesnt get her own way!
Anyway, now i have got tears from her - and i am trying to be sympathetic and gentle but i know myself its not coming across like that at all, just sheer desperation of respite!
Anyway, hope you are all good this morning, i have just looked round the house and nearly cried at the complete state of it all
Hey ho will probably still be like that in 2 weeks time when she comes back home.
xxxxxx
I left home before 7am yesterday and came back after 8pm, to find a house untouched apart from a pile of god knows what stuffed into a bag with mother telling me she was packed Packed her case - properly, then this morning i discover another bag of stuff, no idea what a;; that was about!!!
Anyway i was way too tired to shower her last night so said that i would do it in the morning, more fool me for having an extra 20 minutes in bed today, got up to find mother fully dressed, but undoubtedly unwashed (towels cloths etc all bone dry), so i had to make her undress so she could get showered. Grump sulk shout,just a few of the usual display from mother when she doesnt get her own way!
Anyway, now i have got tears from her - and i am trying to be sympathetic and gentle but i know myself its not coming across like that at all, just sheer desperation of respite!
Anyway, hope you are all good this morning, i have just looked round the house and nearly cried at the complete state of it all
Hey ho will probably still be like that in 2 weeks time when she comes back home.
xxxxxx