Hello everyone, I hope it’s ok to pick your brains again! Mum is still in hospital under a section 3 order. We have been told by her social worker to start looking around nursing homes even though Mum hasn’t improved at all and it’s going to be quite some time before she is ready to leave hospital. We need to look at ones that have EMI Nursing facilities. Can anyone give me some idea what we should be looking at in the homes and what sort of questions we should be asking. I know that one of the main things should be how secure the homes are – we did try to look at one yesterday and when we arrived the door was wide open and we walked straight in. It no longer takes EMI patients and was basically just an elderly care home but I still felt concerns that residents could just wander away.
We've just got home from visiting her and she refused to stay in her room (she usually refuses to leave it) so we spent our time there sitting in reception because she thought if we stayed there she would be able to leave with us. We ended up with Mum between us, a lady who like our company on one side of us who kept breaking into tears and a man on the other side who was asleep on my shoulder! My three children - son aged 33, daughter who is 31 and 24 weeks pregnant and youngest son who is a very young 21 year old, have all said they would like to visit. I prefer they don't see her like this but my husband thinks they should. Any opinions will be very greatfully received. Thanks, Jan
We've just got home from visiting her and she refused to stay in her room (she usually refuses to leave it) so we spent our time there sitting in reception because she thought if we stayed there she would be able to leave with us. We ended up with Mum between us, a lady who like our company on one side of us who kept breaking into tears and a man on the other side who was asleep on my shoulder! My three children - son aged 33, daughter who is 31 and 24 weeks pregnant and youngest son who is a very young 21 year old, have all said they would like to visit. I prefer they don't see her like this but my husband thinks they should. Any opinions will be very greatfully received. Thanks, Jan